Nine Essential Conversations before You Say I Do

Many arguments in marriage can be avoided if those same areas are discussed properly before marriage. While this is intended for those intending to be married, it's not a bad resource for those who are struggling in marriage wondering, "Where did we go wrong?"There are decades of experience in working with couples that have gone into this marriage prep booklet, which has guides for counsellors as well, who may not be sure how to work the discussions. There are inspiring devotions with each chapter of counsel and questions, all to evoke the conversations that MUST be had pre-marriage (or even pre engagement), to avoid needless conflicts later.

If you know some one getting married set down with them and go over this book. A must do for couples before getting married.

If you're not ready to work through the hard stuff before saying "I Do", you will be forced to do so at a later date. It is better to find out that you're not compatible before you get married than to end up divorced or suffering through a bad marriage for the next 40 years.

My wife and I are going through this with an engaged couple for their pre-marital counselling. How we wish someone had helped us discuss so many important issues prior to our marriage. It's not the only good resource out there, but it is one of the best we have seen.

This book is very helpful in guiding both in-depth conversations and personal reflection. The topics are thoughtful and the questions are direct. This book will either build intimacy or help someone rethink the decision to get go forward with the wedding. Either way it’s helpful.